small revelations

I have realized today why I'm not dating anybody right now and why I can't stand being in a relationship for more than 1-3 months.

It's not because I'm incapable of staying in relationships. I actually am capable of doing so. The problem isn't exactly on my end. The problem is much simpler and deeper than having commitment issues.

The problem is that I hate the personality of Hungarian men. I hate it that all they can do is whine and they do everything the roundabout way and they still don't get anywhere with anything (be it their lives or anything else). It's a Hungarian thing.

I mean hell, in America, even if they are raising idiots, they are raising self-sufficient idiots who can take care of themselves. I'm not saying they are brain-surgeons at the age of 18, but they can drive, do household chores... they have certain skills we simply lack. Why? Because we are raised to know all about history, ours and the world's, literature, maths, biology, chemistry, geography, physics, languages, etc. But we are not taught how to do everyday stuff or how to survive in this friggin country. At 18 we are still useless idiots while Americans, as uneducated as they are at 18, they still know how to survive in their country. And yes, this is why I can't stand the idea of dating a Hungarian. Ever.

That and the whole Hungarian mentality of only you matter, and that you lie, cheat, go the roundabout way, do anything to get out of paying taxes and generally can't be a decent human being. It doesn't matter if you kill the economy, because everybody else is doing too - so you will cheat, lie and steal too. But not just that. If someone else does better than you, you will hate that person. If you meet with a misfortune, you wish your neighbor would too, instead of wishing for your life to take a turn for the better. (And I'm sad to say I am Hungarian myself. I just want to escape from this horrid country.)

There is a joke about someone touring hell and seeing a couple of pits:
As a demon says, the first pit is where the Germans are kept under tight security, because if nobody looks at them for even a second, they would work together and get out in no time.
The second is where the British are kept, also under high security, because as the Germans, they would work together and escape were they not being watched 24/7.
The third pit, where the Hungarians are kept is not watched. Nobody cares what happens in the pit. Why? Because if any of them tries to get out, all the others would drag that one back down.

And I think this is why I can't date Hungarian guys. I can't stand them. I actually hate this bloody country. We need someone to clear out this pit and start again from scratch. And if someone tries the old tactics, that someone would be stuck in a rehabilitation center and kept there until they stop trying things the old way.