I think, I'll have to stop soon. I mean... the guy is cute, intelligent, funny and is to my taste (longish black hair and a hawkish nose - woohoo!)... but he is too young for me in my book.
I have a few rules for myself about dating, which I keep. Three, if fact: No dating the same man again. No dating someone's bf. No dating guys younger than me. Same goes for a crush, and 20 years is still not good enough.
Not to mention, that there is one 20 year old guy I would go for - given that I woold ever consider getting mushy with one. So... in the really really close future I will stop - I did the same thing many times. So I can do that.
Not to mention (number two), that I don't want a bf. They are time consuming and annoying. Of course... I could get one. If I wanted to. I could even use my "spooky powers"... Just imagine my face as I write that. Spooky powers my ass.
Anyway. I could try to get one with it. It all depends of course on the matter that; a: I met him, so I established a contact with said person so that he can actually link me with the feeling; b: I want it - and how much energy I use up for that matter; c: I get some favor or bit of help.

Now why did this even cross my mind to write about? A few days ago I saw an interview with a stupid loser idiot, disgrace to all, who call themselves occultists: Loui Padre. He is a dumb, useless fool, who makes up lies and sells them expensive. He says he uses voodoo, but he does not even know what it is. And he makes love potions, which can make people fall in love with you who never met you. Which is stupid.
Of course, there might be... no, I'm sure that there are people who are able to make that work, but... Loui Padre is sure as hell not one of them. And neither am I. I'm just a lowly occult scholar who... tinkers with stuff.

Anyway... using psychology would be, and still is easier. Meet the bloke. If you are lucky, you can engage him in conversation. Try to be attentive, take notice of his responses. Fairly simple. You just have to look. If he likes something, try to react, show some twinkle of interest, act all attentive and make remarks in kind, so that he sees you care. That's quite a way to make impression. Guys are suckers for that. So are girls...
Anyway. Starting off on the net is one great advantage, and sometimes disadvantage too. You set your sights on someone, do the above mentioned talking method, while you have time to check up info on the net... And when you see each other, no matter how much the guy likes you, he sees you and faints. Well... try to get to know his interests beforehand...
Gahh... I'm writing a manual. I suck. Anyway... This works. You just have to think. Why am I writing this? To show that brain makes up for many things. Psychology rocks, and you can get almost anyone with a bit of knack for psychology, good attention skills and brains. Hah!