I came across this in a book I'm reading. I'm starting to wonder if I could just shove it under the nose of any guy who gets interested in me. (Not that there are many of those, but there are lots of weird people on the net.)
"I just didn't respond well to begging or pleading or anything that sounded weak or clinging. I responded to power and dominance and demands for my time and my body. The gentle sensitive guy did nothing for me."